torstai 12. toukokuuta 2016

Do you believe in ghost stories?

Today I spent the evening alone and finally decided to watch "How to be single" movie.
It was funny and enough realistic for a drama/romance movie and I enjoyed of every second of it. Also the endings for each character were thought through. Not gonna tell more about that, so no spoilers and this wasn't going to be a movie review!

But what the main character, Alice, played gracefully by Dakota Johnson says in her last monologue really catches me and is something I sometimes also wonder myself:

"I've been thinking, that the time we have to be single, is really the time we have to get good at being alone. But how good being alone we really wanna be?
Isn't there a danger that you get so good at being single, so settled your ways that you'd miss out on the chance being with somebody great?
Some people take baby steps to settle down.
Some people refuse to settle down at all.
Sometimes it's not statistics. It's just chemistry.
And sometimes just because it is over, doesn't mean the love ends."

Personally I'm not freak out of being single.
I find it so much easier to being single (but not alone) while travelling the world.
I can go where ever I want, be with whoever I want and do whatever I want.
But I do sometimes miss being with a person who wants to share the things and the moments I love.
Never the less I am lucky to have friends all over Europe and even few in another continents.

And why the headline asks about ghosts?

I don't believe in ghosts or other supernatural stuff, but I don't deny them either. I need physical proof.

But

After finishing the movie, I was dancing (with very sexy moves may I say) to this song:

I was basically dancing a "being free and single"-dance with all my heart with my eyes closed, when out of the blue I felt like somebody had poked me to my stomach and all I could do was just stand there holding my stomach for few minutes my mouth opening and closing like a fish on dry land!

The logical side of my brain could understand that it was just my abs getting some kind of spasm, but I couldn't wonder if it meant something more. Because I swear that it felt just like somebody had poked me.

So, do you believe in ghosts?

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